She said "You must have been in love."
Taking a moment to analyze the notion
The idea of loving someone's company
Happily cooking and cleaning
Dressing just for him.
The upkeep of beauty is exhausting
Shaving my legs and arm pits daily
razor burns and nicks.
Blood spilled for love?
It's not unheard of, but my blood?
Does love mean sacrificial offerings
worshiping your lover to some extent
And losing yourself.
Just for love.
It is not love
Rather the romantic idea of love.
Of what it should or could be.
But never quite reaches the prose.
My days of blood offerings are gone.
Romanticizing the feelings
the loving foolish might be with me
The act is not.
If I hold my head this way
You can’t see what I am thinking
know anything more, than an impression
The one I want to give you
choose to show you
the mask that is wearing thin
and refuses to be removed.
Broken and discarded
deserted and cursed
empty without pardon
I will show you no more
I am distrustful of the world of my making
hidden from view
I cry sanctuary
and it echoes back to me
hollow and alone
SHUT IT DOWN
Once is enough
Twice too many
Seeing things I regret piercing my mind’s eye
Praying they won’t happen again
knowing it will
It’s the realization of the child inside
that things end
And wishing they didn’t
Few know the inside
The one still banging stones on rocks
seeing which one will break first
or the stone.
You’ll keep walking
Not good enough
I’ve been there
Standing in line
hands in my pockets
Head held down
Because I know
I will be passed by.
Not pretty enough
She’s very, very pretty
You love your adjectives.
It doesn’t matter
I know I’m damaged goods
I’ve been standing here for a long time.
I know the routine
Not my type.
What makes you perfect?
flawless blue-eyed being.
Blue eyes are a mutation.
Did you know that flawless man?
My eyes are brown
Large fawn-eyed brown
Damaged, but normally so.
I love walking. Now that I’ve said it, I will probably stop. I tend to do the opposite of what someone notices about me once they notice. I doubt that’s a rebellious side, but who knows.
I spent four hours chasing Pokemon today. It was fun. I seldom have fun. Shame is that it was alone.
I’m getting tired of being alone. In all aspects. I’m getting tired of rejection from faceless strangers on IG simply because I won’t play their game.
I consider myself to be a lady and expect to be treated like one. I guess we’re a dying breed of female.
I feel a little depression coming on and I know the trigger so I’m knocking out early and deep.
Some tunes and a little taste of oblivion.
Today wasn’t a complete loss. I got a shiny Pokémon who is very powerful.
Here’s the catch, I have no one to share my adventures with concerning the game. My bestie is trying to get a understanding of the game. Which is cool.
Needless to say I’m not your average woman. Some people can’ handle that. I speak my mind, have my own opinions and strange behavior outside of the BiPolar. A dark quirky sense of humor and other things. A different, yet complete package which no one wants.
P.S. I’m considering getting involved in some advocacy again. This one is about mental illness which is something I am passionate about, although it may seem like I don’t care much about things. I give more than one shit about our planet. It’s just hard to join the fight when you spend most of your energy staying out of the nut ward.
Did some poetry on BiPolar Slip my other blog. It’s sexual. Nuf said.
Knocked back by a cold for a few days. I must admit once you start walking daily its hard to stop. Even while I was sick I just wanted to walk and be out in the air. I did go out. Bundled up while taking short walks and napping once I got home. I was exhausted, but I just NEEDED to walk.
Mentally things are fine. Physically things are fine. Emotionally things are confused.
Trying to figure out what I want in life. Do I want to remain alone? I had resigned myself to being a spinster. That sister/daughter who never married or had children.
At first, the thought made me sad. But there’s a freedom to being alone and a loneliness. It’s the emptiness that kills you. When you want to talk to someone and no one is there. So you pick up the phone and everyone is busy with their family and work.
So what do you do? Where do you go when life is just YOU and it’s not enough.
Do you rush into a relationship just to have someone? Or rekindle an old flame in hopes it stays lit this time. Knowing there was a reason it failed in the first place. But it’s better than the hollow feeling in your chest. Maybe.
I figure I’ll be alone. Not because I’m damaged goods like I used to think. My mental illness doesn’t mean I’ll never find love. Nor am I damaged because of it. If there is someone out there for me or not… I’ll survive.
I had a love. A possibility of having a life with someone who loved me. Or I thought I did. God had other plans and I thank him/her for it.
I realized that when I wrote to him that I was not able to have children and he didn’t want me anymore. All those feelings and empty promises were just that, empty. If I couldn’t breed I was useless. He’s the one who’s useless.
I could get angry. I could hate. Instead, I’ve been spared. Thank you, Lord. He didn’t truly love me. If he did, I wouldn’t be writing this post. A woman’s not a breeding machine. I would have loved to have a child. It just wasn’t meant to be. So be it.
If I find someone who wants this whole beautiful package, we’ll adopt a child or two.
Wow, I called myself beautiful. I’ve never done that before in my life. It’s not a physical beautiful I’m writing about it’s everything I have to offer to a true love. I guess I’m a romantic. Everything I have to offer as a person is what makes this beauty. It’s a fifty-year long journey.
I’m listening to the song, “Both sides now.” by Joni Mitchell
I guess that’s what this post is about. Looking at things from both sides and realizing you really don’t know what you thought you knew.
Age brings a wisdom and acceptance which youth can never fathom.
I’m glad I’m still here.
My morning walks are helping my moods. It lifts my spirits and allows me to clear my mind of negative thoughts and things I have to do for the day. They reduce my anxiety and that is the main thing.
Although I did have two in a row after coming back from one recently. Triggers and timing are all I have to say about that incident.
I believe I am stable which is a good place. I’m feeling so much better about myself and am taking steps to improve my self-esteem. Things just don’t seem to bother me as much. I have my fears and doubts and a full range of emotions. Just like everyone else.
I can control somethings in my life and accept that there are things which are out of my control. I’m not a control freak, never have been. In the whole circle of things, I need to remind myself that others will believe what they will and do what they do, no matter what you advise.
I can’t save the world. And I don’t think I want that responsibility either. I can make changes in my life and hopefully advise positively to my friends. I can raise my voice to things I support. Help when I can and provide random acts of kindness without expecting anything in return. I love doing this the most. 🙂
There are a few things I want to do that are simple and will provide me with joy. Nothing serious, just little goals which make me happy. I like taking pictures with my phone, posting on Instagram or just scrolling through others pictures of nature. I’m trying to keep things simple as possible, that’s when I function at my best.
When you’ve got a three-year-old running through the apartment above your head you thank God for headphone.
My mother is still alive. There’s a loneliness to the song for me. Being alone. Always wondering if and when someone will come into my life. Wondering if I’m cursed to die alone. I think that’s my biggest fear.